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I blame you, I hear you : Couples’ pronoun use in conflict and dyadic coping

I blame you, I hear you : Couples’ pronoun use in conflict and dyadic coping

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MEIER, Tabea, Anne MILEK, Matthias R. MEHL, Fridtjof W. NUSSBECK, Mona NEYSARI, Guy BODENMANN, Mike MARTIN, Martina ZEMP, Andrea B. HORN, 2021. I blame you, I hear you : Couples’ pronoun use in conflict and dyadic coping. In: Journal of Social and Personal Relationships. Sage Publications. 38(11), pp. 3265-3287. ISSN 0265-4075. eISSN 1460-3608. Available under: doi: 10.1177/02654075211029721

@article{Meier2021-11blame-54284, title={I blame you, I hear you : Couples’ pronoun use in conflict and dyadic coping}, year={2021}, doi={10.1177/02654075211029721}, number={11}, volume={38}, issn={0265-4075}, journal={Journal of Social and Personal Relationships}, pages={3265--3287}, author={Meier, Tabea and Milek, Anne and Mehl, Matthias R. and Nussbeck, Fridtjof W. and Neysari, Mona and Bodenmann, Guy and Martin, Mike and Zemp, Martina and Horn, Andrea B.} }

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